Discover fun, crazy, and kinky sex ideas to keep things exciting. From new experiences to adventurous fantasies, explore creative ways to ignite passion in your bedroom

50 Fun and Kinky Sex Ideas to Try Today

You have been together for many years and have seemingly tried everything you could think of, yet your intimate life still feels stale and more like a chore. Sound familiar? If it does, this article is precisely for you. Paving the way to new practices in sex is crucial for any intercourse. You are likely overloaded with mundane sex rather than with your partner. By discovering new fun sex ideas, you are also able to tap into your side the aspects that you usually face only in your ordinary interactions. Some seemingly crazy sex ideas will bring you and your significant other closer as a couple and deepen your trust and connection. In this article, we will go over almost everything a mind can think of in terms of sexual pleasures and ideas, so anyone can find something they would be willing to try during their nex sexy time.

Why New Sex Ideas Can Transform Your Relationship

Once the honeymoon phase ends, you end up with a, hopefully, more meaningful connection than just lust and surface-level appreciation. You get bored with the way you have sex, and it starts to feel dull and mundane. Trying out kinky fun sex ideas lets you maintain that spark you initially had and build on it, creating a wonderful couple who trusts each other with their bodies. By experimenting with sex, you get to know your soulmate and let yourself be vulnerable together, which in turn forms a beautiful bond between two loving organisms. You learn more about the bodily pleasures and open minds, with the subsequent knowledge of how to communicate your needs and desires. Having surprising and unusual sexual intercourse helps you build a strong foundation for a bright, fun, and creative future together.

The Science of Variety in Sex

When a couple is experimenting in bed on a regular basis, they constantly improve as lovers. This means that they are able to maximize sexual pleasure in their relationship and overcome any discrepancies they may have. People have different libidos, temperaments, routines and insecurities. These do not have to plant seeds of disagreement, disappointment, regret, and boredom in a couple’s bedroom. Seeking out new sex ideas that work for both people in a relationship is key to both healthy communication and physical intimacy. Experiments with this intimate momentum to make the intimate routine of the couple going and prevent sex from becoming one-sided or repetitive.

Communication Is Key

Communication is crucial in all aspects of relationships, especially when it comes to sex and sexual activities. When both partners feel safe in expressing their desires and boundaries without the fear of being judged or misunderstood, it unveils a whole new dimension of what it means to be a couple. Fun sex ideas that you may have will promote sensual and vulnerable conversations. Both partners should be free to express any desires they have in mind as well as set boundaries. Once these discussions take place without negativity or fear of rejection from either side, you know you have truly established a marvellous line of communication between each other. You should always talk through your fantasies first before acting on them in the bedroom. This way, partners avoid overstepping each other’s boundaries and ruining an intimate moment. Saying your desires and limitations through direct communication retains your confidence and security in the bond that you create together with your beloved.

Fun Sex Ideas for Every Couple

It’s normal that some people cannot boast their originality in sex practices and ideas. Yet, if you are into finding an alternative route to explore the debris of your sexual practices, we have prepared some examples of fun sex ideas. Almost every couple will find something they will deem interesting and easy enough to try out for themselves.

Try Sexy Challenges and Games

There is a plethora of fun sexy ideas when it comes to card games and challenges. You can easily find sexual card games online or even at some book stores. Usually, these card games include several prompts and challenges to ignite that spark between partners. A lot of them include drinking to loosen up the atmosphere. In these sets of cards, you get challenges that range from outright sexual acts towards your partner (e.g., “Put your hand in your partner’s underwear for X minutes, or drink”) to questions aimed at deepening your connection (e.g., “Guess your beloved precious movie; drink when you’ve given the wrong answer”). You may change the rules and punishments for failure the way you see fit. Just keep it fun and sexy. Not only are these games engaging by themselves, these practices give way to experiment during sex without putting too much thought or effort into it.

Experimenting with Sensory Play

Sensory play is suitable for all types of lovers—from newbies to experienced experimenters. Engage all five of your senses to maximize the emotional outcomes of sex for the pair. Experience with special massage candles (use the right ones to avoid burns and injuries); use the scent of your partner’s perfume to activate that part of your brain; try gently biting, spanking, or playing with the hair. Combining the interplay of blindfold and temperature will give chills and a new perspective on sex. You can use something as simple as an ice cube to elevate your sensory stimulation during sex. Don’t forget about different types of sex toys! Try out different materials (glass, steel, rubber) to find out the most mind-blowing combination or sensory play.

Role-Playing Scenarios

Try on different roles during sex and use costumes, makeup, and character-specific dirty talk that will invoke the special desire to fuel the subsequent sexual intercourse. You have an astonishing opportunity to explore common interests and new exciting sex ideas. You can engage in role-play even without costumes and come up with steamy scenarios instead. These may be totally fictional situations or completely mundane scenes that will play with a different color when sex is applied. Let your imagination and acting skills shine. Buckle up for your creativity to stimulate the fantasies you’ve always wanted to explore but never got the opportunity to devise to manage your carnal play.

Outdoor and Unconventional Locations

Taking your sexual interactions to a new location may bring you a mind-blowing level of excitement and adrenaline. Sometimes, engaging in a public display of affection alone may be enough to drive you and your partner insane. You can choose to discreetly indicate your level of arousal to play with the risk of someone noticing. Or, for the most adventurous couples, find a secluded outdoor location to have sex at. It may be a beach, a familiar forest, or a field. Tap into unconventional locations to make sex risky and fun. Find an abandoned building, use the elevator, a secluded section of a library, have sex near a waterfall during a vacation, in an empty laundry room, in your car, in a tent during a hike, in a barn. But please be careful and mind the laws about public sex and nudity. Perhaps some fantasies should stay just that—a fantasy.

Kinky Sex Ideas for the Adventurous

If you are already  experienced enough and would like to try something more bold, we got you covered. However, trying something drastically different from what you’re used to takes time and patience. These sex ideas can be fun, but you will need to ease into them and go slow at first. Don’t feel discouraged or intimidated, though. We are ready to guide you through the process of introducing something extra steamy into your sex life.

Bondage for Beginners

Bondage is one of the aspects of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism), but you need to ease into something as intense as this kink. Start out by doing only bondage and add other aspects later (or not—it’s entirely up to you). You can start off with something as simple as a harness, just to get into the aesthetic and the feeling of bondage. It can be as restrictive or loose as you please. As you get more used to harnesses, try tying your or your partner’s hands above their head or behind their back to ease into the restrictive aspect of bondage. Explore shibari if you feel extra fancy with the practice of being tied up or tie your beloved one. Do not force things, stop if needed, and maintain a clear line of communication between each other. Go at your own pace and practice bondage safely. Remember, this has to be fun for both parties!

Exploring BDSM Dynamics

Once you are familiar with bondage, you can proceed to integrate other aspects of BDSM into your sex life. Power play is a core aspect of this kink, and it needs to be handled very gently. In the interplay of bodies, one takes the dominant stance, the other—submissive (feel free to take turns in these roles!). Explore these dynamics first before incorporating pain and toys. BDSM requires extensive aftercare for both partners. Aftercare ensures that both of you are fine with the dynamic and don’t feel negatively overpowered or used. Don’t forget about a safe word—an indicator that you should stop having sex immediately. Remember that your main course of action is directed at achieving pleasure and actually orgasm during sex.

Incorporating Toys and Tools

After you get skilled at dominating and/or being submissive and completely comfortable with the dynamic, bring in toys into the equation. They will provide you with even more room for creativity and experiments. Use conventional sex toys at first, such as dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, and the like. If you are feeling adventurous, buy sex paddles and whips; this will definitely make sex more adventurous. There is no limitation to the number of toys you should use; just make sure that everything is consensual and agreed upon before you reach the bedroom. Try some accessories, too! Handcuffs, collars, or lace hoods all work perfectly well.

Fetish Exploration and Communication

Remember how we stressed the importance of communication? It is crucial to talk your fetishes through before you decide what to actually try. Sit down and openly talk about your fantasies. It doesn’t have to be in a business meeting format, yet you should take these conversations extremely seriously. Be open in communication and feel free to reject the sexual practices that seem uncomfortable to you, get ready to have some ideas rejected. It’s a two-way street, and no one should pressure their other half into doing something they are not completely on board with. However, don’t get constrained by fear of new practices just because you do not fully understand it yet. Continuous communication before, during, and after sex should be the basis for kinky sex ideas. When you fully trust each other, it is not intimidating to try something new. Ultimately, if something rubs you the wrong way, you will just stop having sex and move on to the next adventurous idea of yours!

Crazy and Creative Sex Ideas You’ve Never Tried

If those ideas weren’t crazy enough for you, we have others up our sleeves. Below we describe other crazy sex ideas that will undoubtedly bring even more spark into your relationship. Don’t hesitate to take inspiration from them and add something suitable for your relationship in particular. It is all about your boundaries and creativity at this point!

Incorporating Edible Fun

It’s safe to say that sex and food are among the most enjoyable aspects of day-to-day life. Why not combine the two? Have your partner place whipped cream on their erogenous zones for you to lick up. Or replace massage candles and safe wax with comfortably hot chocolate (remember to exercise caution to avoid burns). Use honey, syrups, or body chocolate to strategically drip on your significant other’s body. Food makes sex fun and playful, and you or your partner become a sweet treat, literally and figuratively. Keep the allergies in mind and never put food into your intimate parts, as it may pose health risks.

Sexy Photography and Videography

Taking sexy pictures and videos together may be an extremely fun and intimate activity. If you need some guidance on how to take sexy pictures, see our other article, where we go in-depth over the equipment, lighting and editing. Intimate photography and videography that you exchange with your beloved brings you closer and maybe gives aspects you can reminisce about later on. It can be especially exciting if you’re having sex in a costume or an unconventional location. Moreover, if it’s something you’d like to explore, you can even supplement your income by becoming a couple adult content creators. Or you can merely explore each other’s bodies in an artistic way and capture your beauty as a couple forever. Do not, however, film your partner without their consent and prior discussion.

Exploring Cultural and Historical Fantasies

This is a very exciting opportunity for history nerds and interracial and intercultural couples. Through including some aspects of your partner’s culture in your sex life, you can deepen your understanding and bond. This may include some pieces of traditional clothing or words of appreciation in a different language. Exploring history and culture intertwines heavily with role-playing. You can become true time travelers during sex and play out scenarios ranging from Greek myths to the Renaissance to modern history. Always remain respectful of other cultures and other people’s histories and show only admiration during your sexy time-travelling activities.

How to Talk About and Plan New Sex Ideas

Some people might feel shame and guilt for having certain sexual fantasies. Therefore, the way that you go about bringing them up and developing them is extremely important. Planning and discussing sex is crucial to guarantee a pleasant experience and avoid miscommunication and awkwardness.

Breaking the Ice with Your Partner

Start from afar and delineate the things you want to explore during your sexual contact. Emphasise your respect for their opinion and your pleasure of having sex with them. Otherwise, the partner might feel attacked or disheartened by the conversation and react to any further input negatively.  If their response is positive, try to share some of your milder fun sex ideas. Once the conversation gets going, proceed to go further into your fantasies. Perhaps it would be best to start such a discussion after or during a date, so that it doesn’t seem too sudden or inappropriate.

Setting Boundaries and Safewords

Everyone has boundaries and things they would never do due to their preferences or past experience. During your intimate conversation, be firm about your boundaries and sensible to the boundaries of your significant other. Sex should never be traumatic, and you should always know when to stop. Come up with safewords or phrases to use during sex to communicate your mental and physical state. Usually they’re something abstract so as to not confuse them with a sexual “No, stop it” during BDSM, for example. It can be anything, really, from “banana” to “code red.”

Boundaries and safewords ensure that you both have control over sex and are on the same page about having intercourse. Never neglect boundaries and forget about safewords, as doing so may seriously traumatise you or your loved one. Plan these aspects ahead and thoroughly go through them before sex, if needed. Above all, you should feel safe and secure to explore your fantasies and sexuality.

Frequently Asked Questions About Fun and Kinky Ideas

Now we will cover the most common question about fun sex ideas and their execution. It is okay to have doubts and approach novel sexual experiences with caution. Hopefully our answers will help you navigate your kinky sexual fantasies with ease and confidence!

Is It Normal to Try Crazy Sex Ideas?

Our answer is… Yes! It is perfectly normal and healthy to try crazy sex ideas with your partner. It deepens your bond, promotes profound emotional and physical connection, and is a perfect foundation for healthy, exciting, and fun relationships. After all, you can always go back to having vanilla sex. Do not feel weird or creepy for having steamy fantasies—everyone does. They keep the spark going and turn intimacy into something more than just orgasming during sex. Furthermore, the sheer ability to discuss these kinky sex ideas means that you are able to openly communicate with your beloved one. No one should care what goes on behind the closed curtains, so just continue being as crazy with the yearning to explore the wildest things in bed. It’s not your fault that some people are boring.

What If My Partner Isn’t Interested?

It is to be expected that not all of your ideas will be immediately accepted. You should be ready to face rejection. However, this doesn’t mean that you can’t compromise and incorporate at least part of your fantasies into sex. Communicate with your partner to find out exactly why they turned down your sex ideas. Maybe all they need is a little bit of education on the topic and encouragement. They may feel shy or scared of new experiences and not necessarily completely opposed to them. Nevertheless, if it’s a hard “no,” you should respect it and find something that suits both of you. As we showed above, the opportunities are endless; you just need to get creative.

How Do We Stay Safe During Kinky Play?

We went over the use of communication and safe words during sex before. Take this advice to heart and avoid hurting each other during sex. If you are unsure of some new practices, go slow and educate yourself on the fetish, kink, or fruitful expedition into the realm of your sexual pleasures and dreams. Never push each other to the limit, and stop if you need to. Remember about foreplay and aftercare to make the experience as comfortable as possible and ease into sex. If you are ready for your quest for something crazy, you need to stay most careful and caring. Paying attention to body language and non-verbal signals is also crucial. And, of course, use protection!

Embrace the Adventure Together

The physical intercourse is designed to bring you ultimate pleasure, communication, and connection. Kinky sex ideas may be intimidating to approach at first, no doubt! However, if you follow our advice and stay open to discovering something new, get ready to explore this debris with your beloved one. Educate yourself on the endless opportunities to stimulate your lust and enjoy seeing your relationship grow stronger and better. It is healthy to seek out exciting sexual experiences. Focus on communication, safety, comfort and fun for everyone involved. Don’t rush for the things you don’t completely understand to avoid miscommunication and discomfort. Use safe words whenever you feel overwhelmed and need to take a break or stop completely. Stay safe and have fun with your crazy sex ideas!